Common Family Problems

Introduction :

Like there is no bread without holes, there does not exist a family without family problems.  All members in the family cannot be alike. Thus the differences in nature give rise to difference in opinion which leads to conflicts or misunderstandings.

Common Family Problems:

some of the common family problems are misunderstandings between the members of the family, non-cooperation by children, jealousy and enmity between sibling, financial problems, relationship problems between spouses, problems in handling the daily chores, problems with other relatives of the family and problems due to child birth and or problems due to a death in the family.

While there is no one solution for all problems, there is no solution for all problems either.Each problem has to be taken on an individual basis and the family members need to discuss problem resolution.
Some of the problems like lack of sensitivity or understanding by a child can be caused due to indiscipline. The root cause could also be that the child needs special care. Unfair treatment of one or both parents towards children can cause enmity and jealousy between siblings. Parents need to avoid pleasing one child at the expense of the other.

Divorce or separation of the parents can be a very big emotional burden for the children to carry. The whole process needs to be handled carefully with regular psychological consultation for the children.

Disrespect towards family member or outsiders, crossing boundaries, lack of empathy and violent behaviour by a family member needs to be curbed as soon as it is noticed and the family members need to take due care to identify what is causing such behaviour and tackle it.Age differences can cause differences in understanding and responding to different scenarios, family members need to recognize this and talk it out.

Conclusion to Common Family Problems:

While there is scope for a lot of problems in a family, the very reason that it’s a ‘family’ means that the members can handle these common problems amicably and live peacefully. Every member in the family should contribute towards ensuring harmony and love between the family members. This way most of the common family problems can be avoided.